I think the first thing you should know is that this site is populated mostly with ex-JWs and this site is considered "apostate" by The Watchtower.
Second, your kids are NOT JWs unless they are baptized, and if they are not it is in your - and their - best interest if they DO NOT get baptized until they are of legal age - Jesus got baptized at 30 years of age.
Third, you need to spend some time reading the following site: https://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/case-studies/case-study-29-jehovahs-witnesses
Good luck to you and your entire family.